Two ‘older’ gentlemen, having just finished their lunch, were talking together as they walked their lunch check to the reception desk at the restaurant’s entrance. They were, perhaps, a little surprised when the girl behind the podium seemed to shrink back in horror as they attempted to hand her the check.
This scenario is in stark contrast to the story of the grandmother I recently wrote about. Here we see these two generations acting, not from a common experiential base, but from a set of understandings based on time fixed custom.
How to Pay in a Restaurant
The elderly gentlemen were observing the second rule. They weren’t in a diner. It would have been very difficult to confuse their current surroundings in the Legal Seafoods Restaurant with a diner. But they were having lunch and this fact may have propelled them into diner mode. The girl at the podium, on the other hand, had probably spent most of her outside dining experiences observing rules one and three. Under the current circumstance she had no idea why these gentlemen would be trying to hand her the check. (more…)
